On Sunday’s 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? episode, Shaeeda and Bilal’s ex-wife Shahidah got into a heated argument. Following the tense exchange between the two ladies in the 90 Day Fiancé tell-all, they met up with Bilal again to chat. The meeting ended in a dispute in front of everyone, and Shahidah stormed out in resentment.
Shaeeda was still resentful of Shahidah for asking her whether she had signed a prenuptial agreement before she married Bilal. Shaeeda found the manner Bilal’s ex-wife approached her to be “aggressive,” and she hadn’t been able to get over it. Shaeeda frankly informed her that she felt “disrespected” by the manner Shahidah approached her when the three of them met. She didn’t yell at her, Shahidah noted with evident annoyance. Shahidah had had enough when Shaeeda insisted she come with her “fighting gloves on.”
“I’m not about sit here and stand for that because that’s not what I did,” she heatedly told her.
“She wants to get away with her bad behavior as usual and I’m not going to put it to rest,” Shaeeda told cameras. “Acknowledge that you hurt my feelings, apologize and move on. You’re not gonna play me out to be a liar when I’m not lying.”
Even when Shaeeda said that Shahidah had offended her to the point where she considered kicking her out of her house, Shahidah remained unapologetic.
She declared, “I’m not going to apologize for something I didn’t do.
Shahidah stood up from the table and tried to escalate the situation when Shaeeda questioned why she bothered to attend and declared that she was “actually done.”
“Bilal, you better come get her because you know this will get left, real quick,” she said. “Real quick. ‘South East Diego’ will be up on here. And don’t say ‘so what?’ because you don’t know me. You’re putting something on me that didn’t happen. I’m not trying to be a bully to you, but you’re not going to back me into a corner.”
Shahidah advised Shaeeda to monitor who she was speaking to as she left the room after continuing to label her a bully.
Shahidah took off her microphone and said, “You better get her.” “Since I’ll pull you out from behind that table, OK? because you have no idea to whom you are speaking.”
Although stunned into silence, Bilal was obviously upset. Although Shaeeda admitted to the cameras that she wasn’t feeling well, she was pleased of herself for challenging Shahidah.
“I am like, so, so, so, angry right now,” Bilal said. “Things happen, but for things to happen in public make it more embarrassing. If I start talking right now, I may say something I might regret.”
ET recently spoke to Bilal and Shaeeda about their journey on this season of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?, and Shaeeda said she and Shahidah were currently “cordial.”
“For the sake of the children, you have to be cordial because sometimes the bigger picture is your focus on your children,” Shaeeda noted, referencing Bilal and Shahidah co-parenting their two kids together. “So, despite if you’re feeling some type of way, try to put your differences aside just to be cordial with the person, which I have been doing. It’s hard. But at the same time, I am looking at this as, oh, I’m in a family unit now. Bilal doesn’t come with himself. He come with children. So, I cannot be too loud or disrespectful. So for the sake of your kids and for the sake of having a peaceful family life, she and I are cordial. We can say good morning, good evening, and goodbye.”
She did, however, admit that she had set “boundaries” with Shahidah.
“I think in a relationship when you are with a man who has children, you could co-parent with the ex and stuff but there always has to be boundaries,” she stressed. “If you don’t have boundaries, it’s a disaster. So I think I am a little bit more vocal when it comes to being respected, when it comes to having safe boundaries in our relationship in regards to her.”
