Things that drive men away in a relationship

There are things that drive men away that we generally intend to take as a joke. And as a normal saying “my man left me without knowing what I did” or “without me doing anything“.

They are derived from some of the routine things we do, such as: having a bad attitude, waiting for him to apologize even when you are at fault, mistreating him, denying him meals, sex and waiting for him to always make the calls and texts.

Bad Attitude

Nobody likes having a liability as a woman, and the same is true for men. Nobody wants a woman with a poor attitude, a woman who can’t act appropriately, and a woman who can’t do the right thing. A woman can lose a man, whether or not she is married if she has bad manners and doesn’t know how to act appropriately.

Being Unapologetic When Wrong

A woman’s man may quickly leave her if she is unable to act when she is in the wrong. For instance, expecting her partner to apologize at all times when she knows she is at fault and wrong about something can drive him away since you are not acting morally. Even when he is at fault, learn to apologize to your partner; this will calm him and bring him back to his senses.

Ill-Treatment

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No guy will want to be with a woman who treats him incorrectly without love, care, protection, and humour. Some women don’t know how to treat a man properly; they treat their man as they would another man and speak to him however they choose.

Waiting for him to always Make Calls and Send texts.

Most women develop the practice of not responding to their calls or texts if they don’t receive them. Men are also human, and just like everyone else, they have blood coursing through their veins. He tries to provide for himself and the family, sometimes forgets, and occasionally checks to see whether you really do care before acting as if you do. When you wait for him to call or contact you at all times without making an attempt or phoning him when he doesn’t, it alone demonstrates how little you care and will give him more motivation to continue living.

Sex Deprivation

Both natural and artificial foods can win a man’s heart. Men never mess around with their cuisine. When you stop giving them food, they become bored and start looking for another person. He can be better served by someone who will do things his way. Yes, you can cook well, but only when you can also serve.

Nagging Woman

Being a nag can only make things worse for you. A little nagging here and there is okay, but persistent nagging makes you seem like a crazy, uninterested woman to your boyfriend. Rather than making him happy, you wind up driving him away so he may find a more pleasing woman—someone who will make him feel valued and pleased.

Not Being Appreciative

Well, since hard effort pays off and idleness only turns you into a fool for being lazy, men should work hard to ensure that they can support their families, friends, and other loved ones, but especially their own. They never fail to lavish their women with money. It only makes him weaker than strong, makes him feel as though his work is not enough and breaks him to think that all of his efforts were in vain when he provides, but the woman doesn’t appreciate his effort and makes him look foolish for providing. He feels the vibe and has more energy to provide when you embrace and appreciate him for the little he offers and encourage him in love, but when you don’t and all you do is complain and discourage him, he chooses the person who supports and encourages him.

The demanding type

How does it make you feel as a woman when all your man does is make demands all the time? You may feel the same way about your partner because no man wants to be a liability like a lady. In all honesty, a man wants a woman who makes an attempt to support herself and does not constantly rely on him for assistance. A man seeks a woman who values what little he offers. You become a liability to your man when you constantly ask him for things and don’t make an effort to ensure that you receive certain things without him, which makes him tired and bored of you. He gradually finds his way out.

Stepping Beyond Your Boundaries

Respect is something everyone needs and deserves. Nobody wants a circumstance in which respect for others is lacking and things are taken for granted.

When you don’t trust and respect your man’s privacy, it drives men away from him away. When your man asks you not to touch something, you don’t have to; when he says a particular place or space is off-limits, don’t dare mess with it. He undoubtedly has reasons for doing so that are based on the knowledge that is only known to him.

Searching through your man’s phone for information is not permitted unless he voluntarily provides it. Many women enjoy looking through their partner’s phone in search of information that could later end their relationship or constantly interrogating him in order to invade his privacy. When you do so, you disregard his judgment and alienate him because it demonstrates your lack of faith in him.

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